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13 March, 2007, Author: Scatman Dan, 7 Comments

Invisible Girl

Categories: Personal

Last night I met the most invisible person ever. She was sat in the Ship & Castle with some of the regulars when I introduced myself. "Yeah, we’ve already met," she said. Some way later into a conversation, we’d determined:

  • I’d seen her before at the Ship & Castle, and looked right through her.

  • She’d served me breakfast a few days ago, at the Treehouse.

  • And we did some voluntary work together when we were both students.

Even after all of this, I wasn’t sure I recognised her until I went home and found a photo with her in! I apologised profusely, but she genuinely didn’t care that she’s seemingly able to turn invisible: in actual fact, she seems to like and has come to expect it. We made a comparison to that Buffy episode where lots of people ignore this girl and she turns invisible and starts killing people. She promised not to start killing people. That’s kind-of reassuring. She doesn’t look particularly strong, but I don’t want to get on the wrong side of anybody who I can’t see.

Personally, I’d hate being so unobvious: I love being able to be "seen" when I want to be, so it was hard for me to understand the attraction. Perhaps she’s just resigned to it after decades of being ignored.

7 Responses to Invisible Girl

  1. Becky says:

    Or maybe, Mr Q, your just slightly a little bit of an attention seeker, Hmmmm?

  2. Scatman Dan says:

    Aye, that’s for sure. I’ve never denied that.

  3. So a girl you meet in The SHip claims that she’s met you a few times before and you take her back to your place to look at photos?

    WHY DOESN’T THE GOOD STUFF EVER HAPPEN TO ME?!?!

  4. The Pacifist says:

    Well… he doesn’t actually say he took her back with him…

  5. Faye says:

    I have days like that, actually. I’ve had people walk right into me.

  6. Scatman Dan says:

    I find that harder to believe, Faye.

  7. Crusty says:

    Just wait until you’re 50! You get more invisible with age in my experience (but fortunately, perhaps, care less in equal proportion).